Sunday, October 23, 2005
monopoly/ bgr
I picked myself from bed at 8am for bball game. Last Sunday gave Rachel a set of aeroplanes, today also dun wish to upset her again. Spent about fifteen minutes getting my sisters up, fed up ah. Ate roti prata cheese at coffee shop, went PLKCC. Daddy tagged along :) and we played a little. He not bad leh, but too bad old le.
No much people came to touch basketball. Only a few aged (army age) guys played.
It drizzled and he duwan us to stay under the rain, Jacqueline, Joann, Joanna, Jimmy (my dad) and i walked haggardly to KFC and ate the hot devil. Erm then blah blah blah. Rachel came over at noon. We played a round of Uno, singapore monopoly, went down to grab some snacks and watched Dear Boys anime. I love Kazuhiko Aikawa. He rules basketball :P
The 4Js and Rachel went to buy french fries from 703. I gave the uncle monopoly money, and the people of the stall laughed -.- I didn't expect such a commotion. Lol. I'm hating my phone more.
I went out with Pei ting at night, talked about bgr. Mentioned about my past and think it's really unneccessary to have bf at such a young age lah. I quoted these from a book:
Properly, courting should be carried on with marriage as its goal. So, it should not begin before the person is ready to take on marriage responsibilities. Of course, you cannot know right at the start whether you want to marry a person or not. So it makes sense not to be too quick in settling your attention on any one individual. But this is no reason for carrying on "courtships" that amount to no more than a mere flirtation or a series of flirtations.
Even if you are "interested" in someone, you would be wise, for a while, to try to keep your association with such one as merely part of a group, in group activities. Why? Because, in those circumstances, you can often get a better idea of what a person is really like. This is because we all incline to be more "ourselves" when we are not under the pressure of feeling that someone is paying us special attention. But when a couple separates from the group, the natural tendency from then on is to be what the other person wants you to be, even to mirror his or her likes and dislikes. And sometimes this can camouflage one’s real personality. When paired off, a couple can also quickly become emotionally involved so that they begin to see each other through "rose-colored glasses." If a couple get married under the flush of such emotion, they often face a rude awakening.
Generally, it is the man who initiates courtship, by expressing interest in the woman. If he is honest and serious about it, she has the right to believe that he is at least contemplating marriage. Then what? Well, she then has a responsibility to ask herself whether she believes she could consider marriage with him. If she is quite certain that she would not consider him as a prospective husband, then it would be cruel for her to allow him to develop a deep interest in her. Some girls have been willing to let someone court them just to enhance their appearance of popularity or eligibility, hoping that other young men would now notice them. Some young men have done similarly, thinking they can "play the field," have a good time and then depart before things get too serious. But such selfish use of one’s freedom can cause real hurt, severe wounds that may take months, even years, to heal.
I'm not planning for marriage now and am not as simple as other girls. I have different criterias. So i may or may not end with marrying :D
No much people came to touch basketball. Only a few aged (army age) guys played.
It drizzled and he duwan us to stay under the rain, Jacqueline, Joann, Joanna, Jimmy (my dad) and i walked haggardly to KFC and ate the hot devil. Erm then blah blah blah. Rachel came over at noon. We played a round of Uno, singapore monopoly, went down to grab some snacks and watched Dear Boys anime. I love Kazuhiko Aikawa. He rules basketball :P
The 4Js and Rachel went to buy french fries from 703. I gave the uncle monopoly money, and the people of the stall laughed -.- I didn't expect such a commotion. Lol. I'm hating my phone more.
I went out with Pei ting at night, talked about bgr. Mentioned about my past and think it's really unneccessary to have bf at such a young age lah. I quoted these from a book:
Properly, courting should be carried on with marriage as its goal. So, it should not begin before the person is ready to take on marriage responsibilities. Of course, you cannot know right at the start whether you want to marry a person or not. So it makes sense not to be too quick in settling your attention on any one individual. But this is no reason for carrying on "courtships" that amount to no more than a mere flirtation or a series of flirtations.
Even if you are "interested" in someone, you would be wise, for a while, to try to keep your association with such one as merely part of a group, in group activities. Why? Because, in those circumstances, you can often get a better idea of what a person is really like. This is because we all incline to be more "ourselves" when we are not under the pressure of feeling that someone is paying us special attention. But when a couple separates from the group, the natural tendency from then on is to be what the other person wants you to be, even to mirror his or her likes and dislikes. And sometimes this can camouflage one’s real personality. When paired off, a couple can also quickly become emotionally involved so that they begin to see each other through "rose-colored glasses." If a couple get married under the flush of such emotion, they often face a rude awakening.
Generally, it is the man who initiates courtship, by expressing interest in the woman. If he is honest and serious about it, she has the right to believe that he is at least contemplating marriage. Then what? Well, she then has a responsibility to ask herself whether she believes she could consider marriage with him. If she is quite certain that she would not consider him as a prospective husband, then it would be cruel for her to allow him to develop a deep interest in her. Some girls have been willing to let someone court them just to enhance their appearance of popularity or eligibility, hoping that other young men would now notice them. Some young men have done similarly, thinking they can "play the field," have a good time and then depart before things get too serious. But such selfish use of one’s freedom can cause real hurt, severe wounds that may take months, even years, to heal.
I'm not planning for marriage now and am not as simple as other girls. I have different criterias. So i may or may not end with marrying :D